Heart or the Hand

Being more concerned about the outer appearances of a person instead of what's going on in their hearts is the same as accepting temporary satisfaction, while ignoring the long term consequences. Downfall is inevitable when problems are shoved away inside our hearts without being dealt with, this is why when we are trying to help people, we can't judge them by what they do, but what's going on inside their minds. Changing inwardly is always a more permanent change, which normally follows us throughout our lives. While changing outwardly rarely lasts long at all, people change everyday, it's nothing new.